let's stop the judgement!

I want to start this off by saying that I am in no way perfect 
and am definitely at fault for doing this myself. 
I just think we need to confront it head on... 
We as women need to listen to each other 
and actually hear what the other women are saying.

We as women need to be so much more supportive to each other than we are. 
In everything... 
In motherhood {& everything that comes with it}... 
In body image... 
In relationships...
Let's just support each other! 
Stop judging each other and love each other for who we are. 
We are all different but yet we're all the same. 
We all come from different places 
and have different relationships 
and lives, but we all have feelings 
and we all have to be willing not only to see the difference{s} but understand them.
I love just like you do. 
I see faults in myself every.single.time I look in the mirror just like you. 
I have rough days and amazing days just like you. 
I have special qualities just like you. 
I work so hard to be happy just like you. 
I feel just like you. 

I don't want to care that you breastfed your kid when I didn't...
I don't want to care that you feed your kids all organic when I feed my kids whatever...
I don't want to care that you are in perfect shape and I am so far from it it's not even funny...
I don't want to care that you have a best friend but I don't...
I just want to see you 
and know you 
and love you for who you are.
In all your beautiful, amazing, funny, charming, sweet glory!

So why can't we just support each other and say I understand... 
I'm here for you no matter what.
So this is what I propose that we stop judging 
and start supporting each other no matter 
our differences or our similarities!


Libby Boyes said...

Love this girl! From one Libby to another . . . I completely and wholeheartedly agree. I think it's sad that we judge each other so much. And I think we can all honestly say that we do it! I don't want to, but I do. But I need to be more aware of when I do and I need to be more positive and uplifting all the time! Oh btw . . . I love your name and think you're beautiful! Just saying :)

Heather said...

Love this!!! I wish woman all woman could be like this! Your beautiful inside and out and I hope you know that!

bitsofsweetness said...

Girl this is so good! I am talking to our moms group about ending the mommy wars. Do you care if I read this? It hits the nail on the head!

libbyuglesich said...

Of course you can read it! Share it with whoever youd like!

Catherine said...

Word! I try to judge less and support more every day. I judge myself the most, though, and that's the hardest to stop.

Christina McGuire said...

Hi Libby!

I just came across your blog and so glad I found ya! Cute blog you have here! ( I also love your daughter and son's names! Precious)

Just wanted to say hi and introduce myself as your newest follower. Hope I can have you stop by my blog and follow along with our little family and life in south Florida.



The McGuire Family


Becky said...

I think as Christians we can be the worst culprits of this. It's so often that I hear (and catch myself) judging people based on a lifestyle choice or other things that really have no eternal significance. There is so much hate in Christianity that is spewed in the name of Jesus it's sick. It's not my place to disassociate myself with someone or say the way they live is wrong it's only my job to love them to Jesus and pray for their salvation. Thank you for sharing...really caused me to reflect.

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